EDITED because of my stupidty
OK. I'm asking people to leave this. me + the certain person have pretty much made up, we're still talking about it though, seems it is as much mine as his fault in a way, I need to loosen up
I am staying, and thanks a whole lot for your support guys, I love you all two, specially spode.. introduce me to those 2 please
anyway, suffice it to say i'm in a slightly better mood now, and sorry for wasting your bandwidth